10 rules of interesting life for married couples

 Rule #1. Those families who in the process of love friendship had common interests, hobbies related to any kind of active joint activities outside the apartment (of course, legitimate), just have to maintain and continue these hobbies in family life as well.

Recall that interests and hobbies (as well as hobbies) are, in this case, all the things that spouses can systematically do outside the home.

For example:

- Doing some common sports together: morning or evening jogging, gym, swimming pool, athletics, volleyball, basketball, soccer, golf, tennis, tennis, skating, luge, any kind of Eastern, Western or Slavic martial arts. And so on and so forth.

- Sharing any less common sports: mountain skiing, skateboarding, roller skating, bicycles, windsurfing, yachting, sailing, diving, rafting, caving, mountain climbing, horseback riding, water and land motorcycles, hang gliders, paragliders, parachutes, "bungees", etc.

- Sharing any musical and creative activities: KVN, "kapustniks", student and author-novice theaters, painting, sculpture (including sand and ice), homemade rock-punk-pop-rave-pop bands, DJing, graffiti, poetry, prose, etc..

- Regularly walking dogs together near the house. Raising any kind of pets: cats, mice, rabbits, fish, hamsters, turtles, frogs, parrots, etc..

- Attend any courses: management, marketing, psychology, computer design, accounting, photography, public speaking, etc.

Rule #2. Those families, which even in the process of love friendship lacked common hobbies associated with active joint activities outside of the apartment, having created a family, the spouses simply have to find these hobbies for themselves. Otherwise, their relationship will be under great threat.

Rule #3. Families who don't want the risk of divorce to arise are obliged to engage in any kind of active joint activity outside the apartment at least once a week (maximum - two). This activity must be regular and systematic, rather than episodic (a bout once every six months).

Rule #4. Families with active family leisure time should engage in it regardless of their financial capabilities. Simply put, there is no need to chase very expensive and fancy activities. You don't have to take up golf or yachting, horse racing and air sports right away. There are inexpensive gyms in every town, and there are free jogging tracks, tournaments, and bars near every school. There are mountains around every town or city that can and should be conquered. No one charges for hiking or skiing in the woods or fishing yet. It is known: he who is looking for ways to save money will always find an opportunity to do it cheap or free.

It is important to understand: The amount of positive emotions is not directly related to the cost of the event. It does not matter what the fire is carved with, the main thing is that it burns. Conquering the nearest mountain together in this sense is no different from the storming of Everest.

Snorkeling in your local lake is like swimming in the Red Sea.

Walking your mutt outside your home is like walking your purebred dog. Catching a crucian in a shallow pond is from catching a trout in a mountain river. Keep that in mind.

Rule #5. Families with active family leisure should ensure that the interests and hobbies have a compromise nature, more or less equally suitable for both partners. Remember: if you love a man, love and his hobbies. Then he will love you along with your own hobbies.

Rule #6. Families planning active free time with children over four years old must choose such hobbies, which can be interesting for their children and in which they can be easily involved. This approach is as unifying as possible for the whole family.

Rule #7. Families planning active leisure activities should carry them out even if there are unfavorable circumstances for carrying out these activities. In this case the second partner, who temporarily cannot fully take part in active activity, is still obliged to accompany the partner in this activity at least somehow, to support his/her undertakings and be there for him/her.

Rule #8. Spouses who are active in sports have no moral right to engage in them alone, even if there are particularly unfavorable life circumstances for their partners. In the case of the wife's pregnancy, the presence of a young child, injury or illness of the spouse, "the other half" must either for some time to give up their activities, or find her a replacement, which would still allow the spouses to do something together. For example, while the partner is sick, you can skip joint activities at the gym and just do sports at home, including the purchase of home exercise equipment. Or buy a computer console. Or go for a walk together to the mall. Et cetera, et cetera.

Rule #9. Those families, whose hobbies for some kinds of active leisure are systematic, should periodically try some other activities, develop new hobbies for themselves, thus increasing the number of positive emotions. Combat boredom, which surprisingly can also take place in an active life if it becomes too monotonous and obligatory.

Rule #10. It is desirable for families with active family time, both to involve all their friends and acquaintances, and to acquire new ones on the basis of common hobbies and interests. The support and encouragement of others is especially helpful in overcoming your own lethargy and laziness. These rules are elementary, but they work!

In families where there are no common interests and motor activities outside of the apartment, and there is only one child, within ten years of marriage divorce occurs in eight cases out of ten. Even if the partners have a great financial situation.

But the pluses of having common interests in the family and motor activity outside the apartment I will name you a dozen.

Ten pluses of active family leisure In families where the husband and wife have common interests:

• Their marriage usually turns out to be very strong even if they have only one child. (Even if the couple is childless.);
• The couple has a higher level of intimacy. Accordingly, the risk of infidelity is several times less; there are significantly fewer quarrels and conflicts, and they are resolved faster and with minimal losses;
• Men and women get sick less (and save money on treatment), live longer and more active lives;
• Men and women almost never suffer psychological problems such as neuroses, psychoses, apathy and depression; - Men and women almost never become alcoholics or drug addicts, they are less likely to commit a crime;
• spouses always have more family friends, the circle of communication itself is wider;
• husbands and wives career is more often successful, goes uphill: this helps initiative, responsibility, sociability, goodwill skills. Here the author's pun is appropriate: When people go to the mountains, their careers go there, too. Especially if the boss is also a climber!
• Families almost always have a complete understanding with their children, there are almost no teenage "father-child conflicts", children learn better, and there is less chance of them being drawn into alcoholism, drug addiction, and crime;
• husbands and wives are in better physical shape, follow fashion and look good;
• Accordingly, by the method "from the contrary", you can easily see the set of those disadvantages that you acquire in the case of boring family life and total housekeeping. It is unlikely you need them;
• Know how to forgive each other in your family! Increase your overall family activity! Be together in joy and in sorrow, love each other, forget all the bad things, and move toward a better life as a family!