7 signs that a person is selfish

 

    How do you recognize a selfish person? There are signs that will give away such a person.

1. Egoists can't tolerate criticism.

It is not even in their inflated self-esteem, they may then agree with critical judgments.

It's just that initially they react very acutely and painfully to being criticized. Sometimes, though, it's both a matter of self-esteem and of being seen as right about everything.

2. egoists are prone to narcissism.

They are very particular about their appearance, even if the selfie is male. They are narcissistic and think they are extremely beautiful people.

Their narcissism is also expressed in constant stories and bragging about their successes.

3. they do not sacrifice their own interests, for the interests of others

This becomes especially noticeable in family relationships, when an egoist wants something and it does not even occur to him that someone may want otherwise.

In family relationships, they are people, often overbearing, who are tyrannical toward their family members.

4. they like to command even in small things

Even their tone is always commanding. They seem to have deliberately worked on such behavior and tactics, but it is only a "natural gift" that came with their egoism.

And no matter how great leaders they may think they are, people around them sometimes see them differently.

5 Egoists do not know how to listen to others

They are not interested in other people's problems. They may be offended that you "dump" the weight of your troubles on them. They do not like trouble at all, and they prefer to live easy.

6. Egoists simply adore the word "I.

They use it so often that they don't seem to talk about anyone or anything else but themselves.

7. They are touchy if there is the slightest indifference.

They resent the fact that in some situations other people may put their own interests ahead of those of an egoist. This gives them a lot of problems in the relationship.

For example, they may be offended that you called in his favorite cafe, knowing full well that they like another place. They regard this as a manifestation of disrespect, dislike, lack of attention to their needs.

In short, selfish people are immature individuals who chose to remain in childhood, but have learned to manipulate not only their loved ones, but have mastered this skill to perfection.