When does a woman feel happy in a relationship with a man? When she can be herself. When she meets a man's reciprocal interest in her, when there is respect, love and care in the relationship. To achieve this, it is necessary to take into account the psychological difference between the sexes and to know how to behave, taking into account this difference.
A few tips given below will help to understand men more and make the relationship harmonious.
Men need to ask for help.
It does not matter what kind of help it will be: to carry a package, open the door or a can of canned food. A woman makes the mistake of doing everything yourself. Asking for help gives a man a sense of his importance to the woman, gives the understanding that she needs his strength, agility, courage, skills. Even if he did something with faults, the man should sincerely thank him. The next time he will respond to a request with more desire and will do everything better, because the man is looking for a woman who needs him and his care.
Waiting for a response.
It is not uncommon for men to take more time to understand a woman and think through their behavior and response. Anything a woman says, a man projects onto his logic. If a woman asked a question and did not get a quick answer, it may be she touched on an important topic for men that requires more careful thought. Many women do not wait for an answer, but answer their own question, offer options. Not surprisingly, they then get completely different from what they expected.
Find a compromise.
Some men tend to start dictating their terms. You need to clearly understand that blind submission to a man in everything will not bring happiness. But the attempt to put a man in his place, can lead to negative consequences in the relationship. It should be remembered that a happy relationship can only be built on mutual understanding and mutual respect. Important decisions should be taken jointly, working out compromises that may suit both sides. But some small, unprincipled decisions will be useful to leave to the decision of the man. It's important for men to feel like real men who can make decisions.
Speak directly and frankly.
Many women are not inclined to talk directly about something that is important to them. Constantly talking in hints, expecting from a man of any - or action, and not getting what they want, women are beginning to resent men. In fact, do not do this, the stronger sex think differently and the situation that does not suit a woman, may well suit a man. Therefore, a demonstration of resentment, after ignoring hints, leads men to genuine confusion. In such cases, it is enough for a woman to say directly what she wants.
Show interest in his mate.
When a woman passionately asks a man about his affairs, favorite activities, thoughtfully listens to him, he rightly perceives it as her interest. And when she approves of him, as well as being proud of his achievements, it inspires him to new achievements. Moreover, he, too, begins to show curiosity about the woman's life.
Continue his development.
To develop as a person, as a professional, to have his hobbies. This serves as a way to increase self-esteem, to maintain momentum in life. A woman who lives an interesting life, makes it better, feels on the crest of a wave - commands respect from her man.
A happy, harmonious relationship is not an accident. Relationship is a process that must be built together. Only then, can we be happy.
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