7 points that will allow both to work on the relationship

 

    What do or don't people who can be described as happy as a couple do or don't do? There are seven things that allow you to work on your relationship in between.

1. avoid rebuking each other

Even if your soulmate is doing something wrong, you can explain things calmly rather than rolling to insults and "hit-and-runs." In your interests - to be understood, to be heard.

So learn to express your dissatisfaction so that they sound like constructive, gentle criticism.

2. Learn to make each other happy about little things

This is not so hard, and not as expensive as it may seem at first. That is, no one has to give each other expensive gifts, constantly arrange a romantic date.

Just help, just support, just give small favors, make little surprises.

3. Make hobbies that will be interesting for both of you

Let it be something new, which you are not attracted to before, and what do not interest your spouse. Joint activities and hobbies are very bonding.

Most importantly, try to spend time in doses, too long stay close to each other - can also be detrimental to your union, you just start to get tired of each other.

4. Recognize that each of you has personal boundaries, and try not to violate them

If your partner cares about something, don't neglect what he asks for, even if it seems like a small thing to you.

The reason for discord can be a mere trifle, like things you leave on his desk, or the fact that you drink coffee from her glass. Everyone should have "his", and this "his" - inviolable.

5. Do not give each other ultimatums

There is nothing worse when they start threatening, saying, "I'll do this and this, if you do not listen to me, choose!

More often than not, the choice is made by the person, regardless of how you want it. Exclusively out of spite, for there is nothing to set conditions for.

6. No need to make a big deal out of it

Learn to stop, even if you really want to fight.

7. Learn to forgive each other when the matter has been settled and the incident is over

It is important to close each past "chapter" of your romance and not to remember it, even if it was very painful and hurtful.