They are cold-blooded and unemotional. They can be rude and tactless. Always strong and indestructible. At the same time, according to the data, men are offended twice more than women. But the stronger sex tends to hide their grievances and keep quiet about them. And this is even worse for the family boat, because the accumulated frustrations can rock it so that it inadvertently and will turn over.
So what can offend men?
1. Criticism and pointing out his shortcomings
Men want to seem perfect. They can hardly stand it when a woman points out any of their shortcomings. And even if a woman is a thousand times right, but a man is better not to know that she sees that he does not reach the ideal. He can blame himself for something, but criticism from his woman is unbearable for him.
So if you want to keep the relationship with the man, do not point out his shortcomings. Talk about your feelings, which you have a particular moment, but do not go to the active accusations.
2. The Lack of Praise
Praise your man for everything: Both for the house that he built and for the nail that he hammered in. It is important for a man to realize that what he is doing is noticed and appreciated. Praise from his woman raises a man's self-esteem and gives strength to conquer new heights. Lack of praise gives the opposite effect: the man drops his hands, and the desire to do something melts before his eyes.
3. Attention Deficit
Yes, yes! Men also need attention! And if he brings you into a relationship with his friends, don't forget about his presence by engaging in lively conversations with his friends. Remember: your man is number one for you in any company. Don't let him feel unwanted.
4. Comparison with other men
This bomb can't even be called a time bomb. If you start comparing your man to other men (especially your exes), you risk getting an immediate response: "So go to him.
Comparing yourself to others really hurts your man's dignity. Even if the comparison is in favor of your man, it is better to remain silent, because otherwise your man will think that you pay attention to others or remember your exes.
Sometimes women may say to a man something like "But our neighbor already has a car and a cottage," trying to encourage his man to take action to acquire a car and a cottage. But such actions are wrong, and they will not have the desired effect.
5. A show of disrespect to his parents
Even if the relationship between a man and his parents are not the best, and he himself criticizes his parents in some way, to hear disrespectful comments about them for his woman is not acceptable. In order to understand how this makes a man feel, it is enough for a woman to imagine that he says something negative about her relatives. And if a man's relationship with his relatives is very close, he will be doubly hurt by the fact that his woman does not accept his family.
6. Making decisions without his knowledge
One of the most common mistakes women make is taking responsibility for everything in the family. A husband should feel like the head of the family, so don't question his competence in making decisions.
Men do not like it when a woman is constantly advising him something and controlling how he performs any task. It is important for a man to believe that a woman is capable of solving any problem himself.
7. Rejection of sex
When a woman rejects her man for sex, she is rejecting him as a person. If there is no adequate reason to reject intimacy, then this very rejection may make a man feel unloved and unwanted. Even the lack of response to his touch can greatly hurt his self-esteem. A woman must be very sensitive in these matters, because for men everything about sex and male role in it - issues are very, so to speak, burning. Any criticism in this case is a blow below the belt for a man.
8. Treating someone like a child may be a reason for resentment
Women grow up faster than men. Peers may be at completely different levels of development, but that doesn't mean you have to demonstrate your superiority so vividly! Since you feel more mature, then act smarter: Act gently and painlessly for a man, direct him to the right path.
9. When the "neck" becomes the "head"
Men really value their place in the family. They have to take the lead. If a woman wants to guide her man on the right path, she can do it gently and accurately. When the fairer sex tries on the role of the head of the family and makes important decisions without the participation of his chosen one, it causes a lot of resentment. He was left behind and openly showed that his opinion here is not worth a penny. How could anyone like that kind of attitude toward his person? To lead a family to well-being, to be a strong and reliable support for it - this is a man's mission, do not deprive your chosen one of this goal.
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