How do you keep a man and continue a relationship so that he doesn't even think about looking around and doesn't want to leave the love nest? The ability to continue a relationship requires small sacrifices and constant dedication, and at the same time the man must be willing to compromise.
What you can do from the beginning to seduce a man and keep him:
1) Behave respectfully. If you are with a man, behave appropriately and respectfully. For example, don't spend all your time with your cell phone in his presence, commenting on what's happening on social media or responding to messages. And if you know there are things he really can't stand, don't do them.
2) Give him space. Don't push, give the man freedom, both in the initial stages of your relationship and in the course of a long-term relationship. The fact that you are married or living together doesn't mean you have to live and do everything together. There is nothing wrong with you going out with girlfriends occasionally and him playing soccer with his coworkers. Trust and don't be oppressive, or eventually he will feel the breath on his neck and will seek to get rid of you.
3) Don't complain. It's fine to want to talk, express yourself and share your opinions, but don't take every possible complaint and criticism out on your partner. Instead, focus on finding a solution.
4) Don't compare. Avoid reminiscing about his former girlfriends or coworkers, perhaps teasing him by asking if they are prettier than you. Such behavior is not welcome, causes nervousness, and indicates insecurity. Your partner is in a relationship with you, what is the point of bringing up someone like an ex? Do you feel threatened and perceive all other women as potential rivals? If so, you need to work on yourself to raise your self-esteem.
5) Demonstrate your qualities. Make him feel that you are unique, that with you he can have an adventure and a life experience that no other woman can give him. If you understand him and are able to meet his needs, you can get his attention. Show him that you not only have a beautiful body, but also a brain.
If the relationship has led to marriage, make sure that the routine does not take over, continue to live this wonderful adventure with him, share emotions and never take him for granted. To do this, follow these simple rules:
1) If he does something nice for you, don't be afraid to admit it and thank him. Let him know that you appreciate his presence and efforts. The man will feel satisfaction and will be motivated to behave well in the future. This shouldn't just refer to material commitments such as a gift or arranging a vacation, it can simply be his support in a difficult moment or the fact that he was able to guide you through a very dark time, keeping you calm and pointing you in the right direction.
2) You don't have to change for him and you don't have to be too supportive. It's okay to compromise to make the relationship work, but you don't have to change your nature and throw yourself at his feet constantly saying yes. Don't pretend to agree with him on everything, because that's impossible. Respect your individuality, live your life with consistency in who you are. Express your ideas and your point of view politely and clearly. Your partner is sure to appreciate this vibe in the air, this stimulus you are able to give him.
3) Show your man that you are a smart woman, that you can handle yourself, and you don't need him for every little task. After all, you are his woman, not his little daughter. Being independent doesn't mean isolating yourself and pretending he doesn't exist. A man needs to know that you are capable and able to perform your duties to the best of your ability and that he can count on you.
How do you maintain interest so that you don't lose it forever?
There are certain behaviors to avoid. If you want a "guarantee" that he will always be there for you, you need to be able to maintain his interest. Feel free to surprise him. This does not mean that it is necessary to give him gifts. You might as well surprise him with completely new and unusual behaviors, suggestions and habits.
Do your best to keep the passion blazing between you, take care of yourself and feel free to create spicy situations. Introduce new elements in bed, take initiative, and don't stop making him feel special.
Be confident in yourself. Don't show insecurity and don't beg your man for constant attention. Do something specific: wear a beautiful dress and make yourself beautiful for him, create a romantic situation, cook something special. Start by loving yourself, if this is not enough, he will not be able to give you what you cannot give yourself.
If you desperately seek your partner's attention and gestures of affection, you can get the opposite effect. Man will stop listening, because you have become burdensome and predictable, and will slowly drift away.
Do not drive a man crazy with unnecessary arguments over small things. Choose carefully what you want to focus on and what topics are worth discussing. If he understands that you are not engaged in useless polemics, he will appreciate your presence. If there is a problem, try to solve it calmly and detachedly, rather than complaining and attacking hastily. Everyone should try to do his or her best, based on the conditions of the particular moment.
Then, when the problem is solved, put an end to it and don't bring it up in the months to come. If you want a happy and healthy relationship, it makes no sense to throw hurtful jabs at your partner, no matter how strong the temptation.
Don't let him know that you want to keep everything under control, including controlling his computer and phone. Breaking into his personal space is not a good idea. You might get caught and make a bad impression. If you don't trust the man, or if there are issues that need to be addressed, it's much better to communicate them openly face-to-face rather than acting in secret.
Of course, if a man decides to leave, you can't stop him. But, you can remind him that you are still the woman he fell in love with. If that doesn't work, then don't hold him back and don't adjust to him. Be yourself and don't lose your personality.
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